The Way We Want To Talk About Love

We want to talk about love the way we see it talked about in movies.  We want to feel it on our skin, to hear when some special person says our name with understanding, affection and mediation. We want to feel it, live it, make plans and become better people. Because we love stories that change the rhythm of the heart.

We enjoy talking about this kind of romance. One that has a happy ending – but mostly in terms of a kiss that makes you happy for the rest of your life, not so much from the perspective of everyday life. We focus on beauty, magic, conquest and courtship, the love that we sometimes subconsciously seek and hope for.

There is nothing more beautiful than a good story about how two people met, fell in love and started their relationship leading to an adventure. But what about what happened after that? They don’t tell us about their daily moments in nightwear and without flowers, being at home and shopping together. We don’t want to talk about this part so much because there’s nothing magical about it. But it is still love.

We all want a happy ending, but how are we ever going to get it without all these little steps? The end is not the first kiss, as shown in the movies. The end is not running into each other’s arms, getting engaged, or getting married. The end is often that the feeling disappears, although it is rarely seen in movies.

We like to talk about love, but it’s much more than what we think it is. People build and work on their happy stories every day. The key to surviving rocky areas is the effort that every person wants to see in front of it. If every person sees a lot of effort in front of it, success will eventually multiply.

Do love and happiness go hand in hand?

Maybe maybe not. Or, more realistically, sometimes yes and sometimes no. Sometimes love makes us cry, it hurts and doubts us, but it has to be worth it. We should also talk about this part of love and listen to the other side of the story that we don’t usually hear.

Happiness can occur in many areas of life, so it would be a mistake to think that it can only be achieved through love. Too many people seek and need romance because they feel like they are missing a part of themselves. But remember, we are already whole. Look for the love you can add to yourself, not to complement yourself.

We want to talk about happy love, which may be the reason why we associate happiness so often with love. Encouraged by the hope it brings, it is not strange that we are so idealistic. But the prince and princess of the stories must also live their daily lives and face the challenges of sharing a common life. Even though all this is happening behind the scenes, we only believe and talk wrongly about what we see on the big screen.

The rest of the story

So now we are going to tell the story of the couple we admire. They still loved each other after the first date, the first kiss, the first morning together. They continued to go to bed thinking that they were next to a person they had chosen with all their hearts. They also argued. Sometimes they hated each other or couldn’t find the right words to say. But despite all this, they were happy.

Their story didn’t start well. There were bumps on the road and they had quarrels, but with hard work and love they were able to get over them.

But the story doesn’t end there. We will continue until the end. The end is not happy, but it is the real end.

The love between them was not always enough. Someone else came into the picture and ended their story. So not everyone is happy for the rest of their lives. There is a variety of love, not just beginnings or beautiful moments. There are whole stories, real stories that are much more exciting (and yes, sometimes more boring).